I am just giving my 2 cents worth.
Staying in a relationship together for a long time, couples tend to become used to each other, reliant on each other, revolved their world within each other and so on.
Hence I did learn a very important aspect about it, we need our girl/boy friends too. We need to set aside time to be with them. Hang out, have dinner, go for parties, chill, holidays and the list goes on.
I never really mentioned about it, but when I turn back, and looked back at what happened back then and analyzed it carefully, the pain could have all ended earlier if I had more courage and strength to just walk off and not turned back. Its the feeling that you hanged on because you couldn't do it, and thought things might just work out eventually. But I guess not, sorry. I was hanging on an empty hope.
We are just not meant to be. But I'm sure there is someone out there for you.
In every relationship there are bound to be problems too, some are just not solvable, hence you end it for the better of both worlds. It may hurt. But at least it happened now, and not after you have tied the knot, and you have to remain with your spouse till death do you part as you have made the vow in front of God and everyone. But then again, there is such thing as "divorce". :( not in my dictionary though.
May you find your own happiness too.
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